End the idea that neurodivergency has different levels of severity. If you’re neurodivergent, you’re neurodivergent. There’s not a “more” or “less” neurodivergent level. Neurotypical-passing nds aren’t any less neurodivergent than those who couldn’t pass to save their life.
Neurodivergency is a spectrum and everybody experiences it differently. You may struggle in one area and excel in another, and that doesn’t make your neurodivergency any less of a struggle. You shouldn’t be put in difficult situations just because your neurodivergency isn’t “as bad” as it could be. You deserve to be treated with respect and understanding, not treated as if neurodivergency is a competition.
Some of us struggle with social skills. Others struggle more with sensory issues. We’re all still neurodivergent and should not be pitted against each other for who has it worse. You’re don’t have to be a walking stereotype to be valid.
You deserve love and respect. You deserve support and comfort. You deserve happiness just as much as anyone else.
here is a very quick visual example of what i’m trying to say!