I hate the heavy importance put on canonmates. I don’t want canonmates. Or at least I don’t want to be friends just because we are or probably are canonmates. Be my friend first. I don’t owe anyone memories. I just want to talk to people with similar experiences and make friends, not spend my time hunting down people I may never find. You can make friends with people who share sources and not be canonmates. And I’m not comfortable with sharing memories in the first place because it’s personal.