probably the worst take on this website is the “ugh those privileged cis gays” mentality, as if gay men aren’t one of the most persecuted groups in the world? and like, it absolutely comes from this mogai mentality that the more obscure your labels are, the more oppressed you are (and therefore the better/less problematic/more ‘pure’ you are as a person), and that’s why we end up with 14-year-old lgbt kids struggling to come up with super specific labels for every single facet of their identity in order to prove they’re worth something to older people who they look up to on here, and y’all need to stop